Where the hell can a guy meet women?

I have just about had it at this point! LOL! I am almost 30 years old and never had a girlfriend, only gone on 2 dates and haven't had my first kiss yet! There is nothing wrong with me physically, I am in decent shape and dress nicely. I am employed and educated. I am religious and involved with my community. I am also a devoted family man who chooses to live with his parents and other adult siblings, because I enjoy being around them and contributing to the family (not financially though, parents won't take money LOL). I just haven't a clue as to where I can meet single girls around my age. It seems like they are all dating someone already or married. None of my friends have any female friends and I don't do the bar, club or internet dating scene. People suggested maybe Church as I have old fashioned values, but only old people and married people are there. It's really crazy! Is this whole finding love when one is young thing a sham?