I have been married for almost 5 years now... we started trying for a baby after 2 yrs of our wedding...?

I waited to try it naturally & then moved to IUI, with & without injectibles . i hve done almost 4 cycles of IUIs after some gap in between all 4 . but with no luck...am still struggling to have a baby... I know it will happen , I am being +ive but sometimes I just loose all the faith..I did a lot of research on internet to see,,, & then I came to know about laproscopy, ( the pain I am dealing with ) I discussed the same with my Dr & he said its a major surgery with some risks involved , due to which I am giving it a 2nd thought. I have a feeling that I am not with the right dr & I need help to choose the best Infertility Dr in NJ. it would be great if someone can help me ... I am desperate for a child now... I want to experience the feeling of being complete.. pls help ..... Jai sai